Question: While I have read a great deal about the value of honesty in a relationship, I do have some questions about whether it is really valuable to be completely honest all of the time. Can you describe what role honesty should play in a committed relationship? — Brian [gap size=”60px”] Dear Brian, Here’s how […]
Intimacy Training – What Am I Not Getting?
Question: My teacher (a Buddhist monk) essentially says that I need to practice transcending my emotions if I want to advance in my spiritual training and my wife says I need to get into my emotions (if I want to stay in my marriage). What am I not getting? Answer: The way we see it, […]
Question to the Wise Guy: Setting Boundaries
[container] Dear WiseGuy, How can one delicately suggest to a friend that he/she is overstepping your personal boundaries. Thank-you, Nieda Steppingstone [/container] Dear Nieda, All our relationships, with family, friends, colleagues etc. test our Boundaries! Like a nation’s borders, our boundaries exist so that we can know what is ours and what is not. In […]